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Dildos and vibrators and beads; Oh yes! When it comes to buying sex toys, there is a veritable cornucopia of choices. Numerous plastic doohickeys with clitoral stimulators and some that are designed to penetrate the anus and/or vagina while engaging the clit can be found effortlessly and are quite affordable. If you are on the market to spice up your love life, you wouldn't have to look too hard to find a true smorgasbord of love apparatus.

However, as is often the case with choice, the task of finding the right “fit”, can be a bit challenging.

Buying sex toys is not as hard as it may first appear. Likewise, learning how to use sex toys can be fun with the proper mind set. First, determine what your needs are. Are you looking for an item for masturbation or to share with a lover?

If seeking a masturbation aid, you can spice up your love life with a number of delectable items.

Masturbation Toys

If you're still not sure on how to have great sex, it's ok. The one thing you always want to keep in mind is letting go of yourself. You cannot force sex unto your partner. It is better when both you and your partner have that sexual passion that makes sex a whole lot better than regular sex.

Sex Toy #1: Jelly Dong or Traditional Vibrator:

Jelly dongs are nice because they vibrate, come in many different sizes and feel good in the vaginal opening. On the other hand, vibrators can be a bit easier to handle as jellied and silicone members sometimes slip because of the use of lube, stalling the big O a bit. Vibrators also give a consistent pressure on the clit, making for maximum orgasmic fun.

Both of these little numbers can spice up your love life in the anal intercourse area as well, which leads us to the next sex toys of choice…

Sex Toy #2: Plugs and Anal Beads:

If you enjoy anal play, buying sex toys in that category may be a step in the right direction for you. Butt plugs (cone shaped jellies) and anal beads come in various sizes and can relax the sphincter muscles. With these toys, anal intercourse can be even more fun. For an added zip, put tingling or warming gel on the plug or beads.

Sex Toy #3: Penis Sleeves:

Penis Sleeves are a must–have for men who want to enhance the pleasure they can find with self–love. The toy, usually made of soft, pliable material, is cylindrical or tubular in shape and can be enhanced with the proper lube. Using sex toys of this nature is easy – just glide over the penis and stroke. Sensations can be heightened with a “vibrating bullet”, a silver metallic bud that can be placed on sensitive areas during sex.

If you are the better half of a couple and you sincerely wish to spice up your love life, there are a few adult novelty gems that are sure to please…

Couple Toys

Sex Toy #1: O–Rings

These jellied rings are fun for couples that are into using sex toys. This amazing item has a “vibrating bullet” in it, which can be used for clitoral stimulation as you have sex. The circular part slips over the penis and serves as a cock ring, helping to stave off male orgasm, effectively prolonging sex.

Sex Toy #2: Double–Sided Dildos and Double Bullets

Double dildos or bullets are great for when you and your lover want to get off simultaneously by using sex toys. The two–sided penis, usually pliable (silicone or jellied) is inserted into either the vagina or anus. The couple then gyrate their hips, experiencing mutual gratification with their movements. The double bullet sex toy can stimulate the clit, anus or g–spot with controlled vibrations although it is harder to use.

Sex Toy #3: Anal Beads

Anal beads are for duos that like to introduce anal action to their romps. Caveat – you must know how to use sex toys of this nature properly to get maximum benefit. The best technique is to pack the anus with the beads prior to intercourse. As you make love (through vaginal penetration or, if male on male, mutual oral), begin slowly pulling the beads out one by one, playing with the strand as the orgasms build. When arousal reaches its apex, pull the beads out a bit faster–the big O will be legendary.

Sex Toy Care:

One aspect of learning how to use sex toys is keeping them hygienic. Taking care of your sex toy is important if you desire to continue to use them safely. Best bet – purchase an antibacterial toy cleaner, which you can find at any adult novelty shop or online store.

Learning how to use sex toys, can be a fun and rewarding experience and buying sex toys can be a relatively stress free event. Remember, if you are looking to spice up your love life, you will find the investment of time and money more than worthwhile, and keep things interesting in the sex department for some time to come.

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